Phases

there are many phases that we will meet with changes in life, be it coming out from the army, going back to school or starting a new job, we're bound to meet new people in our lives.

it's always the case that when we meet with these phases, we tend to pay more attention to our new surroundings so that we can know the people around better so as to work better and feel more comfortable in it.

different people take different amounts of time to adapt to their new environment, even among new friends, we mingle around to see who we are comfortable with before settling down and shifting our attention back accordingly.

people around us inevitably gets affected by this shift of attention and it gets unhealthy sometimes when we take too long to adapt to the change in our environment. even worse, some gets too indulged in their change environment that they forget to shift their attention back.

everyone encounters this once in a while and as the people around them, sometimes we need to realize that it takes some time for them to adjust back and there's no point feeling affected by it. just sit back and let nature take it's own course.